Holding lit up candle and the wind blowing,you need to envelope the candle with your hands.This is a common sight on Diwali:)
But what thought comes to your mind while lighting the candle?Don't you wish that wind shouldn't be able blow it.
I too thought the same.Then I realised that my goals and my dreams are like this candle.
There are so many obstacles that you always need to protect them.One should live up one's dreams.You have to provide good care of them.Provide good cover to them.
Your dreams need not get assent from others.Your dreams are your children.You have to be parent your dreams and goals.
Now see,is there any difference between goals and dreams.
Dreams are your destination where you want to be and goal is the mode of transport to reach thee destination.
Stand up and keep your the light of your dream burning till you achieve it finally:)
I hope all this is not something we know but always tend to forget it and we don't give it the care needed.
God Bless !!!!!

There is a girl who always used to live in her world and she might be the same if she hadn't met that person...

She likes to keep her life an open book but she never follows anyone. She believes in herself and always follows her heart and not anyone else. She may take advice from her friends but she always does what she feels like doing even if that is wrong. At least then she won't have to blame anyone for anything. I admire this about her but I think she should follow more of her mind than heart.She is an angel who spreads love and happiness everywhere she goes.She has changed the life of her friends by caring for them a lot. She has a sunshine and a very sweet smile that melts the heart of onlookers. She has the real meaning of love to people around her. But when love knocked at her door, she didn't unlock her heart. I really wish her to be happy always with the one who loves her the most.

Then one day a stranger entered in her life through her blog.A complete stranger .But for him a post was enough to know her. Wonder how he managed to break the door and touch her heart. I swear its very difficult to please her.Well he is procrastinator by name and that too an ultimate one. But with that girl in his life,his tag is fading. I don't know whether if he is happy with this or not. But this is good for him. He never delays anything concerning her and is her real well wisher .He is the bravo but you know her. She won't open the door so easily.That's her condition. He is so caring that he never lets her waste single second and is ready to sacrifice for her career and life but he can't think of losing her at all.I must say, he is a real gentleman.Isn't it?I thought real gentleman and heroes existed on screen only.

I don't know what to say more but what you suggest should happen next.What you suggest??

Strange Relationship

Face glowing because of the choco facial therapy done.Nails neatly filed and painted.Eyebrows finely shaped.Hair being colored and styled.All this and more part of bridal preparations?No,its not necessary.Some indulge in these practices just to pamper oneself or maybe to please their partners.Well,I too indulged in those practices.Now you please stop wondering the reason behind it.

Well,I have observed a strange thing during these activities.There is some relationship between the length of hair and your sweetheart.Am I hearing words like idiot or stupid for myself?Please let me explain this first.As long as girls are in love/relationship,they don't mind pains of keeping long hair(if they have long hair).Mostly all guys love long hair of their girlfriends and they never allow to get hair being even trimmed.But if they broke up or are on the verge of break up,girls always firstly get the make over done by getting hair shorter.The most common excuse is that difficulty of maintaining the long hair.Girls do that intentionally to hurt the guys.Now before the break up,wasn't that difficult to maintain the long length of hair.Now you won't call me crazy na...
By the way,I am planning for getting my hair shorter too.

P.S.-There is no prize in guessing my relationship status.Prospective guys can file their nominations(lols).Just kidding...I am silly girl,don't remind me that.Take care!!!

Where To Look For Happiness?

What is happiness?Where to look for it??Is it situational or always present and you need to realise it?A few words about happiness-
"Well,my thought is that its a state of mind that decides in what mood we.are.What thought we feed to our mind,its reflect our mood accordingly.
Find a quiet place and listen. It should be very quiet. The only sound you should hear is your heart beating. Listen. Peer deep down inside your heart. Do you see someone that holds a special place in your heart? Maybe they have always been there when you needed them; maybe they offered words of encouragement; taught you a lesson; comforted you when you were sick; praised you on your accomplishments. Make this their lucky day.You have the POWER to spread happiness. A quick note or a kind word is all it takes to bring a smile and lasting memory to someone very special."

"Happiness is not in our circumstances but in ourselves. It is not something we see, like a rainbow, or feel, like the heat of a fire. Happiness is something we are."
To realise it,I have enlisted few steps for to feel happiness:-

• Look for your mom.Lay your head in her lap and feel her pat on your head.This would definitely give you heavenly pleasure.I always forget my anxieties and tensions.....I feel sense of contentment and pure happiness.
• Where ever you are,scan your faces around you.I amn't kidding.Some people can really read your faces and there are times ,when strangers gesture you to smile (when you are sad)
• Try getting a brownie.Warm it and add sinful quantity of chocolate sauce over it.Sinful way to melt your heart.Please don't over indulge in it....
• Go for massage or spa therapy for an relaxing and soothing experience.
• Pen down some of your childhood memories and see smile lightens up your face.
• If possible,own a pet and spend sometime daily by talking to it.Believe me ,they do understand us very well.I love puppies and fish..
• Get some "I-Time" .Lie down with no thoughts going on in mind ...Try not to move at all.Its good if catch some sleep in this mode...
• Switch off your mobile(Self explanatory)
• Get in touch with your old friend.
• Indulge in retail therapy(window shopping would do as well)...
• Experiment cooking a new dish or a dessert.Spread smiles...
• Blog or try your hand at poetry.Its not that difficult.
• Participate in your hobby(mine is dancing anytime)
• Do baby sitting or play with toddlers.
• Floral therapy-Decorate your home with flowers or let them adorn your hair.

My First Adventure

Though I am not adventurous ,but when I got the opportunity for it,I grabbed it with my both hands.Lats year when I was on vacation with my family,I was given choices between boat ride and snorkeling to have the glimpse of correls.

Earlier,I was scary about going under the water and be spotted around the fish.How will I distinguish friendly fish among non friendly?Then I thought that it was first opportunity for me to go risky and adventurous.I was waiting for my chance then.I was looking at other fellows who were going and coming.The sight of their safe coming,gave me a relief.

Till then i was collecting some sea shells.The variety of shapes and colors in sea shells always attract me to carry some with me.But I fell bad that creature under it,will become homeless because of me.How can be I so so cruel and rude to any living being?I put them back in the water again.

At last!!!My turn came.When I viewed the huge body of water ;I wondered how deep I will go and will I go and touch the point where the river meets the sea.Silly me!!I think a lot and then curiosity is good thing too.

Anyways we(3fellow passengers,my dad and me) stood together and bonded by a common water tube that held us above water.My face was covered with oxygen mask and eye goggles.Then we started walking ahead.I was shocked when I was realising that I am no longer able to stand properly.Perhaps i was going deeper.It was like as if I have slipped the stairs and still gravitational force pulling me inside.Breathing through those pipes was very tough for me.I wanted to go back but if I would have asked for going back then others could not continue either.
But then my guide told me to float on the water.I got mad and was thinking is he crazy that am I light as a feather to float?As I tried moving my legs backward towards up,I felt like a mermaid.

Next task was to dive under the water and look for corals.The visibility was poor due to accumulation of rain water in the sea.Still I manged to go bit deep and have a look.The guide brought a corral for us to see.I was happy to see it and it gave me a sense of accomplishment that as if I had been to Great correl reef of Australia.

Coming back to the sea shore was easier as I got comfortable in floating back.I had done it.I am thrilled and excited to see new side of my life.This being my first adventurous activity will be remembered as fresh as ever.I am proud of myself.I am looking for more adventurous.

W@Y Of LiFe

Life is not always as you want it to be.Sometimes,it is better or it may be be worse.That's
what we call A Way Of Life.

• When you love someone and your love is not always reciprocated.That's a way of life.
• When you are not expecting something,life drops some surprises.Some are sweet while other are terrifying.That's a way of life.
• When you are hurted ,you fell you are being wrongly punished for not doing anything wrong.But that serves as a lesson to grow up stronger through pains.That's a way of life.
• When you forgive someone for hurting you.Its doesn't matter to everyone but that person still pelts stone at you. That's a way of life.
• When you lose your selfishness to become selfless;It again becomes difficult to become selfish again.That's a way of life yet so true.
• When you are sad,nobody notices you.That's a way of life.
• When you want that no one see you for instance at a date;then someone catch you red handed. That's a way of life.
• When you are its too dark and lonely,suddenly your mobile lighten up either with a message or a call from our dear or near ones that you are not alone.That's a way of life.
• When you dress up to look ordinary and you become the cynosure of all eyes.then you need a mirror to accept your beauty and your goodness. That's a way of life.
• To the world you are one living creature but to one person you might mean the whole world.That's a way of life.
• When you think you are getting upset,just tune in some music and start dancing to its tune.That's a way of life to de stress yourself.
• When it comes to relationships,never expect anything but always fulfill every expectation of the other person.That's a way of life yet so true.

Friendship Versus Love

Sometimes,I really wonder if there is some difference between the two.I believe strongly in friendship but about love,I amn't sure whether it exists or not.

As per my life experience,in place of love-infatuation,crushes and attraction that occurs.What is love??According to Erich Sehgal "Love is never having to say you are sorry"(Love Story)
So many people believe in love and say that pairs are made in heaven.So how can Know who is made for me?can I go to heaven and check my partner.No na.Then How can I believe in such things?Its not that I am against love.The matter of fact is that I await to experience it.I know I am asking for true love.I know thats quite difficult thing.I would rather say
"True love is like ghost heard by all but seen by few."
But still,I want to that few spieces that I want to go for difficult things.I think I will get it because of my positive attitude.

But still there is so much confusions between friendship.I think love exist in friendship too.I have so many friends who are like my jewelery who adorn my life.i care for them so much that I don't need to determine my care for them.Isn't that love??Love exist in friendship too.Never ending love and care.Can't we say that is love and it is spread so widely.

Love isn't confined to your partner or spouse.But it is everywhere.It lies in every relation but its intensity is different.Its depend on how deeply attached you are to the person.I love some friends whom I just adore a lot.The geographical distance might be too much but they the distance between our hearts is nil.Even if I amn't in touch with them,they never feel that they are forgotten and not even me think I am lonely and forgotten.

About the other love,I am still waiting for the right person at the right time and the right place.For the time moment,I have my hands full with my priorities of my life.But the search begins.....